Sex alphabet — helping you get pregnant

Longing for a baby with your husband? Is your sex life a bit ho-hum? Check out our sex alphabet…

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Accessorise

Bring out your necklaces — long, short, and mid-length — and wear nothing but these. Kiss your man from head to toe, while your chains graze his skin — the most sensitive organ! Bonus points if you use the chains to tie him up.

Bondage

Eroticising an everyday object is key to bondage. So, when your man comes home after work, blindfold him with his tie, walk him to the bedroom and have your way with him. Adds Dr Martha Tara Lee, clinical sexologist from Eros Coaching, “Tell him not to move or you’d stop touching.” Naughty!

Communicate

“What might feel pleasurable one day can be painful the next, and communicating can help you have not just good, but great sex,” Dr Lee notes. Let him know what does and doesn’t work (compliment him before you mention the don’ts).

Dominating

Tell him exactly what to do and how to do it. For instance, tell him to unhook your bra with only his mouth. Then, order him to kiss your feet, your shin, move up to your thigh, then your…

Exercise

This lowers your “sexual age” as compared to your actual age. According to a study by the Harvard School of Public Health, men who participate in 20 to 30 minutes of vigorous activity are 50 per cent less likely to have erection problems. Explains Dr Lee, “Our sexual function is affected by our general health.”

Foreplay

It delivers pleasure subtly and is vital to better orgasms. According to a study published in The Journal of Sex Research in 2012, it was found that “diverse sexual stimulation” enabled people aged 16 to 64 to last longer in bed, especially oral- and self-stimulation.