Since your newborn will wake up for night feeds, follow these survival strategies to ease these nursing sessions.

As your newborn is developing rapidly, they will need to refuel every few hours because their tummies are tiny. Their stomachs grow from the size of a small marble at birth to that of a ping-pong ball in days.

The team at Thomson ParentCraft Centre notes, “A breastfeeding newborn will usually sleep around two to three hours a night.”

So, caring for a newborn can be exhausting, especially at night as mothers find themselves waking up every few hours to breastfeed their little ones. With so many nights of interrupted sleep, this can leave them feeling wiped out

So, following a simple set of rules will keep these night feeds as stress-free as possible. Do remember to:

1. Make sure the room is dark

When your infant wakes up at night for a feed, ensure that the room remains dark.  

The team at Thomson ParentCraft Centre says, “Bright light keeps a baby wide awake  and causes disruption of their sleep. Consequently, it will take a longer time for them to fall asleep again after a night feed.”

Instead of turning on the room lights, use a night lamp for night activities. So that bubba can differentiate day from night, the team advises letting babies sleep in a room that has day and night curtains.

“Use day curtains in the mornings and afternoons, and the night curtain only in the evenings,” the team suggests.

Bright light keeps a baby wide awake  and causes disruption of their sleep. Consequently, it will take a longer time for them to fall asleep again after a night feed.”

2. Swaddle baby well

 As most babies will fall asleep when they are well-fed, the team at Thomson ParentCraft Centre notes, “By swaddling them to feed at night, you can put them back in the baby cot without waking them up.”

During the day, the team recommends that you don’t swaddle baby during feeds. This helps your little one differentiate between day and night feeds, so that they will fall asleep faster after a night feed. 

3. Avoid interacting too much with your baby

While it is tempting to chat and play with your baby during or after a night feed, doing so stimulates them, such that it’ll be that much harder for them to fall back to sleep.

“Do not pick up your baby after he settles down post-feeding, except when he cries loudly and needs a change,” says the team at Thomson ParentCraft Centre.

The team advises that you wait for a baby to exhibit hunger cues before feeding them at night. Don’t set an alarm to wake them up for feeds, unless your doctor has advised you to do so, as this will stimulate your kewpie.

Loud talk at night will also interrupt bubba’s sleep, so, keep your voice low if you are talking to your spouse or someone else. 

4. Change your baby’s diaper before feeding 

Even if your baby’s skin is healthy and they aren’t suffering from a diaper rash, the team at Thomson ParentCraft Centre recommends changing your baby's diaper before feeds. This is because a full diaper may rouse your tot.

Warning mothers to refrain from changing a nappy after a feed, the Thomson ParentCraft Centre team explains, “Some babies will wake up after a diaper change at night, so let your baby sleep after feeds without changing their diaper.”


5. Burp baby well after feeding 

Given that your mini-muncher is getting all their calories by drinking, they will naturally gulp in a lot of air and become gassy

As babies tend to be cranky if there is too much wind inside their stomach, the team at Thomson ParentCraft Centre advises giving babies a good burp after feeding

Also, swaddle your baby well before burping as this will help them to fall asleep quickly after you have winded them, the team recommends. 

6. Cluster the evening feeds

Your baby might demand several short feeds close together over a few hours ― usually in the evenings ― to fill up their tanks for the night ahead. This is known as cluster feeding.

The team at Thomson ParentCraft Centre says, “Feed baby well if he shows signs of hunger during the evening. This is to prepare a baby for gaining more calories before they sleep, so they get a longer stretch of sleep at night.”

The team adds, “If you’re unsure whether your baby’s frequent hunger is due to any other issues, do call a lactation consultant or talk to your doctor for advice.” 

To make cluster feeding easier for you, try to get more rest during the day, so you aren’t so tired in the evening. Do also refuel by eating well and getting adequate hydration by drinking lots of water.  

Feed baby well in the evening if they require cluster feeding (more common in the late afternoon or early evening). Filling them up with milk for a few hours usually means a longer sleep at night.

7. Get everything ready before bedtime

The team at Thomson ParentCraft Centre points out, “The longer you drag out tending to your baby during night feeds, the more awake he becomes, especially if he continues crying.”

Therefore, make sure to assemble everything you need in advance. This includes nappies, dry towels to clean up any mess, as well as comfortable nursing wear to change into if spillage occurs. 

Cutting down on feeding prep time means more precious sleep for you, so set out what you need well ahead of time.

Tips on weaning baby at night

Night weaning your little one has no fixed schedule as every baby is different, the team at Thomson ParentCraft Centre explains. “Every baby will be ready to wean from night feedings at different time periods.”

As a general guideline, babies can sleep around six to eight hours at a time by 4 months. By the fifth or sixth month, they might be able to sleep about eight hours a stretch without a feed, the team adds. 

“Do bear in mind that during growth spurts, illnesses, and teething, your baby may still need a night feed ― even though she would not require one under normal circumstances,” the team at Thomson ParentCraft Centre states.

The team at Thomson ParentCraft Centre offers useful tips on weaning your baby from night feeding:

* Nurse baby more during the day. By getting more calories in the day, your baby will naturally need fewer feeds at night. 

* Feed baby well in the evening if they require cluster feeding (more common in the late afternoon or early evening). Filling them up with milk for a few hours usually means a longer sleep at night.

* Dream feeding (feeding baby while they are still asleep) might be another way to stretch a night feed for some infants.

* Minimise distractions when you nurse during the day as your baby is likely to drink less. They will subsequently make up for this by feeding more at night.

* Engage family members to handle baby at night if they wake to comfort suck. They might then require fewer night feeds.

* Observe your baby’s hunger cues and feed accordingly. Gradually shorten your breastfeeding session, or feed on one breast during the night when you notice baby is not sucking because they are hungry. Mums can also reduce the amount of milk bottle-fed babies consume gradually.

* Establish a bedtime routine. Not only will baby find the routine comforting, it will become her signal that it’s time for a good night’s sleep. A routine may include the singing of nursery rhymes, a story-telling session, a warm bath or a tummy massage, followed by a full feed before bedtime.

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